Are Wedding Favours an Unnecessary Expense? A Planner’s Honest Take

Wedding favours are one of those traditions couples often feel they should include — but in reality, many couples are now asking whether they’re really worth the money. As a wedding planner who values meaningful, stress-free celebrations, I’ve seen both sides. So, are wedding favours an unnecessary expense? The answer: sometimes… but not always.

The Reality: Most Wedding Favours Are Left Behind

Let’s be honest — at many weddings, favours end up forgotten on tables, popped into pockets and never seen again, or quietly left behind at the end of the night. When budgets are tight or you’re trying to prioritise impact, this can feel wasteful.

It isn’t that guests don’t appreciate the gesture; it’s simply that they’re busy celebrating, dancing, chatting — and favours often slip their minds.

Where Your Budget Makes the Biggest Impact

When deciding whether to include favours, think about what guests actually notice most:

• A well-run timeline

• Beautiful atmosphere and décor

• Good food and drink

• Entertainment (which everyone remembers!)

• Comfortable flow throughout the day

These elements tend to create far more impact than an object placed at each setting.

When Favours Are Worth It

Favours can be a lovely touch when they are:

Useful – things guests will genuinely enjoy (mini bottles, edible treats, candles)

Personal – handmade items or something tied to your story

Charitable – donations to a cause can be meaningful and waste-free

Local – items from Dorset makers feel special and support small businesses

These types of favours are less likely to be wasted and more likely to be appreciated.

Eco-Conscious Considerations

If sustainability is part of your wedding values, traditional favours like plastic packaging or throwaway trinkets probably won’t align. Couples are increasingly choosing to skip favours entirely or opt for eco-friendly alternatives such as seed packets, wildflower confetti, or local honey.

It’s OK to Skip Them

Here’s the truth: you don’t need wedding favours.There is absolutely no rule saying you must provide them, and most guests won’t expect them.

If skipping favours means freeing up budget for:

• live musicians

• upgraded florals

• a photo booth

• or simply keeping costs under control

— then it’s a choice worth celebrating.

Final Thoughts

Wedding favours can be lovely when they’re thoughtful, practical, or personal. But if they don’t feel like “you,” or they’re stretching your budget, skip them without hesitation. Your guests will remember the joy, the atmosphere, the entertainment, and the moments — not whether they went home with a small gift.

Want help deciding where your budget will make the biggest impact? Dorset Wedding Co. is here to guide you every step of the way.